Anxiety
“Anxiety was born in the very same moment as mankind. And since we will never be able to master it, we will have to learn to live with it— just as we have learned to live with storms.”
-Paulo Coelho
Over the years, anxiety and depression have become less stigmatized and accepted as more and more people are realizing that their experiences are not singular, especially due to people openly and vastly being able to share their experiences via social media. Believe it or not, anxiety plays an important role in our lives. “How?” you say. Anxiety is a response to a threat and the emotions that it elicits help us to survive (think flight-or-flight). There is also such a thing as having a healthy amount of anxiety, such as that nervous excitement before you are about to share some big news to the people that you care about.
However, anxiety can be a giant pain in the ass is when it becomes overwhelming, disruptive, paralyzing, and consuming in your day to day. When anxiety perpetuates a chronic state of stress, you start to feel the toll physically, emotionally, and mentally. Even when you know that your anxious thoughts are illogical, your body may still react as if you are in danger, making it near impossible to relax. You think, life would be so much easier if you did not have anxiety.
As someone who is more anxiously-oriented, I get it. I really do.
What Can Anxiety Look Like?
Racing thoughts
Constant worry that is difficult to shake off
Frequently thinking of worst case scenarios, which can be paralyzing
Fear of conflict
Obsessive thoughts/intrusive thoughts despite knowing that the fears are illogical
Avoidance of situations that cause anxiety even if the situation would be beneficial
Physical Symptoms
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- Racing Heartrate, tingly sensation, rapid breathing, nausea, sleep disturbance, fatigue, trembling, stomach discomfort
Feeling like something bad is going to happen and being hypervigilant to be prepared
Panic attacks
Using substances (alcohol, marijuana, etc) to help you calm down
How Can Therapy Help?
Anxiety manifests differently from person to person, but they stem from a common theme of feeling unsafe in the present or the future. In therapy, we will explore and identify where your anxiety is stemming from as well as understand your triggers. You will also learn to identify what your anxiety is trying to tell you and respond to your needs in a way that is soothing and relieving of your symptoms. To learn more about my therapeutic approach, click here.